HAVING A PROBLEM WITH SOME ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE?

TRY THIS GREAT APPROACH! IT WORKS…..

Our natural response to problems is to resist them. Then we start trying to fix them. This, dear friends, only serves to reinforce them, grow them and direct your energy into negatives instead of your high dream.

The best way to approach problems is to work WITH them, as if they are beacons along the path to your best life. To help you take this seemingly counter intuitive approach, give your problem a name. Here’s how this works.

I recently had a client who felt her job was holding her back from her real life passion. She resented going to work, but felt stuck and pressurised about alternatives. She gave her job the male name, Luigi. Then I asked her to set about making friends with Luigi. We began this process by identifying the characteristics of Luigi and what Luigi was all about in her life.

This created a completely different relationship with her job and within a week she had discovered many aspects to it that really served her. Her ideas and feelings changed so much that she decided to stay there. Needless to say much success AND happiness followed and although she knows her life path is ultimately to follow her passion, she totally loves doing her job – just for now.

So try it. Give your problem a name, become friends with it and watch it transform for the better!give-it-a-name

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