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1. Having goals and plans, but allowing them to unfold in ‘’the way they want it to happen’’ ensures you walk your Soul path in the highest and best way.
2. You are conditioned to make things happen per your plan. Soul doesn’t work that way.
3. Everything, every moment, speaks to you of you. The more charge the moment has, the more information is being offered. To access that information simply ASK: what is being reflected back to me that shows me about me?
4. To the degree you embrace the oneness of all things, is the degree to which you allow the river of Divine Life Force to flow into you, and through you, for you. Your life will have flow. To embrace oneness keep repeating ‘I AM THAT’ to every situation you encounter, every person you meet.
5. Allow things to emerge. This does not mean non-action. It means right action. To the degree that you know how you feel you will know right action.
In the quantum world relationship is the key to determine everything. In quantum physics relationships are not just interesting; to many physicists they are ALL there is to reality.
One physicists, Henry Stapp describes elementary particles as ‘’a set of relationships that reach outward toward other things’’. [a very different picture to that of tiny planets moving around a nucleus that we learned at primary school, not so?) Scientist gave up searching for things because as they experimented to find elemental particles, the found things that changed form and properties as they responded to one another and to the scientist observing them. In place of tiny billiard balls moved around by contact forces, there are what amounts to so many patterns of active relationship, electrons and photons, mesons and nucleons that tease us with their elusive double lines as they are now position, now momentum, now particles, now waves, now mass, now energy – all that in response to each other and the environment.
In these words (either Margaret Wheatley or Donah Zohar -not sure which wonderful author penned which bits), explain why so many spiritual teachers tell us that we live in a field of unlimited potential – and that we are creating our own reality. For me I love it when a profound thought is supported by a scientific fact! AND the fact that relationship is key to determine everything, made me realise one of the key principles of manifestation: It’s not the thing you want, it’s your relationship to the thing!
The Soul is a field of intelligence and a stream of energy. It is not a replica of your human form but it knows of YOUR human condition intimately, and holds the memories of all your lives, past and future, however it is not moved by emotions like the human-self.
The Soul knows every decision you have and will ever make – right to the point of the death of your body. It knows your challenges and every single possibility that presents itself in every choice, whether seemingly mundane, like which route to take to work, or seemingly huge, like which person to marry.
Your Soul has lived your life already and knows what life you would have led as you go up the tunnel to Spirit, but at the same time it also mystically remains connected to Spirit (your Spirit and the Universal Life Force – the Great Spirit). Quite something, is it not? It therefore knows your destiny and the life path to which you committed as you took on a human form, and all your human foibles and struggles, and it mediates between the two – all with the aim of getting you to raise your human consciousness. It is that purpose, raised human consciousness, that is Soul’s total abiding purpose.
In light and gratitude,
“When we live our life contrary to the inner guidance of our Soul, our actions often have a disharmonious effect upon ourselves, others and the Earth. This is why the evolution of individual human consciousness is intimately linked with the future of this planet. In light of this, the crisis of all physical illness, emotional imbalance and planetary upheaval has but one ultimate purpose: to provide an opportunity that will motivate us to realign our body, mind and emotions with the infinite love, wisdom and healing of our Soul. Therefore, whenever we gather the courage to do whatever it takes to end the war within, we contribute directly and immediately to our own healing and transformation as well as to the peace that our world cries out for.” – John-Michael
Blessings on your Day!
There is a door. That door is marked MY DESTINY, MY PASSION. You need to find it, and the good news is that you CAN find it. And it is easier than you probably think. The trick is to pull back the curtain that hides the door. That curtain is called MY MAIN HORRIBLE LIFE CIRCUMSTANCE. Yes! You have read right. Your main problem is a curtain, that when approached with the right mind set, can be pulled back to reveal the door to your destiny.
I discovered this by looking back on my own life path and realising that my divorce 30 years ago was THE most traumatic, challenging and difficult thing ever, but was THE turning point for me. I was left to fend for me and my children on my own – without emotional skills, money or qualifications. It was a do or die thing and the circumstances squeezed me, squeezed me tight, so tight I was forced to face the problems head on. No getting away from myself anymore! I had to ask myself what I was going to do about my life. By deciding that I was going to make it, and make it big, I set in motion a process of mining myself and my talents. Suddenly I was discovering all sorts of things I could do well – and delightfully – enjoy too! Suddenly I was becoming a high powered business woman, aerobics instructor, course leader, speaker and author. I was flying, I was happy. Yes I had daily challenges, and still many personality flaws to work on, but I also had a vision and the motivation to achieve it. My problems had become my delicious destiny. Big problems are a psycho-spiritual device to create a focus point for your life-learning. They are also a mechanism to make sure you bring forth your gifts, for your personal use, and to share with the world.
Tip: go to a curtain in your house, close it and step back, saying to yourself my biggest problem is like this curtain. Then deliberately open the curtain saying to yourself: THROUGH MY MAIN HORRIBLE PROBLEM, I NOW FIND AND OPEN THE DOOR TO MY PASSION AND LIFE DESTINY. IT IS EASY. If you do this, the information held in your cells will shift. Do this often. Involving your body in your decision is potent. Energy will start to flow and soon the right guidance will appear in your world – a soft idea floating into your mind, a friend who mentions something, a comment in a film, a hunch……
Trauma. We all have it. It comes through big events, or simply small ones – insignificant moments that someone else might find totally benign, but that your personality finds traumatic. When we think of the word trauma, body injuries, emotional blocks and the like, spring to mind. But I know for sure, can guarantee you, trauma plays out in our finances too. Yes! not being able to pay your bills is traumatic. Not knowing whether you will have money for food is traumatic. Not knowing that you have the affirming power of money coming in every month, makes you feel bad, very bad, about yourself. Trauma and money are partners in financial problems. Not having enough money is a painful experience that runs through your mind. Not having enough money is a painful experience that hurts your body. Not having enough money is a painful experience that blocks the illuminating energy of your Soul. Struggling with money is pain in action.
Why am I being so emphatic about this? If you can truly acknowledge the full impact of money problem on your energetic systems, you will have aligned yourself to the real truth of the situation. That alignment will bring relief and release, and trigger a flow of energy into your body-mind. Flowing energy is an absolute MUST to be attractive to money. So give your money life a boost. Get the law of attraction working again. Acknowledge that you might have PTMS post-traumatic-money-stress.
TIP: when you find yourself stressing about money, stand up and start shaking your body. Start by shaking and wiggling your hands vigorously, then shake your arms – then slowly let everybody part join in, ending with vigorous shaking of the legs and finally the feet. Be a shaking shaking body. Shake out that trauma, and feel your money life come alive!
I recently attended a brilliant talk by Collin Campbell on lucid dreaming. (As it turns out lucid dreaming wasn’t a talk on out of body experiences at night or such things, but rather lucid dreaming is dropping the veneer of the 5 senses to get to live closer to Spirit day and night.) He spoke in depth about the importance of discomfort in our lives, and how modern society with all its creature comforts, creates more and more distance between us and Soul and Spirit. It was a good reminder for me as I am experiencing a lot of discomfort in my own life at the moment – journeying deeply with the messages that my body is sending through poor health. What I remember especially about his talk was the three things he said were essential lucid dreaming
Best of all was his definition of willingness. He said ‘willingness is simply saying IT IS WHAT IT IS’. How lovely! What a fab definition of willingness! What I hear him saying is a total non-resistance to the circumstances and situations of our lives. It is not about being feeble or weak, rather, when we accept what is happening as being perfect for us in the moment, we are WILLINGLY opening to Spirit. Non-resistance frees up energy and allows the great Life Force to flow into our world and move us to exactly where we should be!
I was having one of those days — maybe you’re familiar with them? — when I felt like a passenger on a fast, jerky subway train, holding the handrail tight just to stay standing, each turn throwing me off balance.
I gave a presentation that received a standing ovation and left the stage on top of the world. Then I read an angry email from someone and became angry myself. Following that, I did a fun on-radio interview and I was energized. A little later, I received feedback that I talked too much in a meeting and I was embarrassed and disappointed in myself… Download Article or read more Peter Bregman Stuff